About Kinky Singles: British Kink and Fetish Dating

What Kinky Singles is

A British kink and fetish dating site. You create a profile, say what you are into, search for people nearby, and decide for yourself who to message. Creating a profile, browsing and searching are free. Messaging needs a paid membership, and what that costs is set out in full on our pricing page.

Who you will meet here

Kinky Singles has over 1,200 members, with almost exactly as many women as men. Most are aged 25 to 44 and most live in the UK. London is the busiest area by far, and there are members in Manchester, Birmingham, Leeds, Southampton and beyond. Doms, subs, switches and the newly curious all have a place here.

Who runs it

Kinky Singles is operated as a British dating brand. Every page on this site is written and published by the Kinky Singles editorial team, not by an individual author presented as a member, and there are no named personal bylines anywhere on the site. The site is built for adults across the UK, and every page is written with them in mind.

Everything out in the open

A price, on its own page, before you join. A consent and negotiation page with its own title and its own URL. A safety page naming real British organisations. You can read all of it before you decide anything.

Consent comes first

Everything here starts with a conversation. Members say what they are into and agree what will happen, and what will not, before anything starts. Limits are respected, safewords are honoured and discretion is normal. That is what makes it easy to be open about what you want.

Find out more

Read our pricing page, our consent and negotiation page, and our safety page. Each one is open to anyone, member or not, so you can see exactly how the site works before you join.

How the site works

For the detail, our features page lists what is free and what each paid tier adds, and our community page covers what members are expected to do before anything happens.